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Insights and reflections on leadership, wellbeing and coaching in the third sector.

Pleased to please you

Pleased to please you

For most of my life I've been a chronic people pleaser. I'm not saying I managed to please anyone but I've given a lot of thought and energy to what I think others want, need or expect from me. I've always had a deep fear of not being accepted for who I am and this...

Client blog: whit’s fur ye’ll no go by ye

Client blog: whit’s fur ye’ll no go by ye

Guest post by Pam Shaw - Community Development Officer, Lochwinnoch Community Development Trust One of my favourite Scottish expressions is “Whit’s Fur Ye’ll No Go By Ye” – basically meaning “What’s for you will not go by you”. In other words, if Fate, Providence, God...